Friday, 25 January 2013

[turning through the years]

The title of this blog is a recognition that time trickles away from all of us.  

Now in the final year of my Master's degree of Chemical Engineering, the time will soon come to leave Manchester.  In fact, in less than six month's I'll have graduated!  (Assuming I don't fail).

As it's my final year the workload has certainly stepped up a notch.  Over the next ten weeks the main part of my work will go into producing a 500 page report (roughly) which will look something like this:
Yes, it really will be this big.

As well as this, as the over 18 Ecumenical Rep for the Methodist Church, I'll be jetting off all over the place to attend meetings in different churches.  I'll be blogging about those experiences over at the 3Generate Reps blog here.  Keep an eye on it/follow it to keep up to date with not only my goings-on but also what's happening with the Reps generally - I think I'm privileged to be working with such a great team of young people and staff.   

I promise I'll blog again soon with something a bit more profound and interesting - although maybe my everyday life is interesting to some of you.

Tell me, what have you been up to recently?   What are your plans for the next six months?

Sunday, 16 December 2012

[Save the People]

I've already said that Advent is a time of preparation.  Today I've been preparing not for Christmas, but for exams.  Or I should say, "I've been preparing to prepare".

When I revise, I need everything around me to be clear of distractions.  That means that everything has to be spick and span; everything has it's time and place.  Those who know me will know that although the rest of the house is *usually* tidy, my room is quite often a different story.  Today, that is no more!  My room is ready for me to start my revision.  

There is a large space on my desk (I hope large enough!)
My clothes are all put away
My stuff is all put away
I have a small pile of Christmas presents to wrap (they will be wrapped on Tuesday afternoon, according to my Plan)
My Revision Plan (note capital P) is done, coloured and on my door where I see it every time I walk into my room

Tomorrow I can start preparing for my exams properly.

Tomorrow it begins...


Monday, 10 December 2012

[Prepare Ye The Way Of The Lord]

"Prepare ye the way of the Lord"


Advent is a time of preparation.
Of soul-searching, clearing out, reflection.
And of getting excited.

Not just getting excited about the prettiness of Christmas.
Not just getting excited about the prospect of Snow.
Not just about the closeness of holidays.
It's about getting excited about celebrations.
Family, friends...
and most of all, birthdays!

I do quite a job of getting excited, but I need to remember that there's more to Christmas than all the trimmings.  As pretty as those trimmings are...








Advent is a season all of it's own.
It's far too easy to just skip straight ahead, to the time of which we're dreaming...
and forgetting all about the preparation!
Kind of like final year of uni, and the Big Wide World.

Time to focus on the present.
Christmas is coming
but Advent is now.

What are you preparing for right now?
What are you thinking of?
Where are you living?  The future, or the now?

Sunday, 2 December 2012

[if you want to know where your heart is, look where your mind wanders]


I’ve felt like blogging for quite some time now.  I’ve even come up with twelve (yes, twelve!) different subjects about which I would like to blog, but I’ve had neither the time nor the thought-processes to be able to blog those things that I wanted.   
However, I’ve decided to attempt to go back to this blogging-on-Sundays thing.  I’m not too sure how it will pan out, but we’ll see.

There are lots of questions today.  If you have answers to any of them, I’d love to hear them. 

Today’s blog is all about decisions, I suppose.  Decisions are things that I can find easy (walk or bus to uni?) or difficult (how to do my hair today?).  They can have trivial consequences (which bed set do I put on my bed?) or less-trivial ones (what sort of jobs should I apply for?).  They can have a definite time (what should I have for tea today?) or a vaguer one (how am I going to show what’s important in my life?). 

On 1st December, a good friend of mine got married.  While we were there, I met the 10-month old daughter of another good friend (who is, by the way, gorgeous).  Both friends seem so happy.  It makes me wonder if I’ve somehow unwittingly lost my way with my priorities in life.  Have I got this thing called life wrong?  Am I planning where I should be living?  Am I dreaming when I should be working? 

Can a dream be worked towards, even if you don’t know how your current work will lead to your dream?  If you don’t love what you do, why do it?  These are linked to decision-making for me at the moment because I am coming to the end of my Masters degree – in an area about which I am not exactly passionate.  The work is interesting, for the most part, certainly.  But I’m not sure quite how passionate you can get about a pump. Or a heat exchanger.  (Distillation columns, on the other hand...)

One thing that would be nice to know is how much the decisions that we make now will affect our lives from this point.  I remember watching a German film once about something along the lines of the Butterfly Effect – the theory that a butterfly flapping its wings (or not) on the other side of the world will have some effect here.  Perhaps this is better illustrated by the Doctor Who episode “Turn Left”, but it amounts to the same thing.  Does making the “right” decision depend on the time at which it is made?  Would a certain decision be wrong today, but right tomorrow?

How can decision-making be God-centred when he seems so silent about the whole thing?   A recent visit to a friend threw up all sorts of questions for me – some about things that I realised I should be making a conscious decision about.  If I want my life to be God-centred, how should I go about doing that?  What, or how, can I structure my life so that God’s love is palpable?  That’s the kind of life I want.  The kind I described a year or so ago here.  The kind where everyone knows they’re welcome.  Everyone knows they’re loved.  Everyone knows they’ll be listened to.  And everyone knows that if I can help do anything to help them, I will.  All without me telling them – they just know.  That’s what I want.  But how to go about it?

Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.  When I feel afraid, and I think I’ve lost my way, still you’re there right beside me.  And nothing will I fear, as long as you are near.  Please be near me to the end.- Amy Grant

What’s important in your life?  
How do you make God-centred decisions?

Wednesday, 21 November 2012

[you're the only one who knows me]

Struggling with Job Applications at the moment.  

Disclaimer:  I would never actually write this in a job application form.  I take job applications very seriously... but this is a good bit of fun, which addresses the fact that very often everyone is thinking about cake, and its benefits in the workplace, but it is rarely mentioned.  (well, that's what John said)...


Dear big multi-national corporation,

I think you should employ me because, quite frankly, I need some money. I have been at university for the last 4 years, which means that I have managed to accrue some debt. As I would like to live in a nice house when I graduate, I am in rather urgent need of some financial assets that will aid me in this venture. In addition to needing somewhere to live, I also need money to buy cake-making supplies. Rest assured that I will see this as an investment on your part and will pay back interest on this investment in cake-form. To show my good will I will even let you choose the type of cake I make first. As you are a multi-national corporation, I anticipate having to requisition some of your machinery so that I will be able to demonstrate my advanced chemical engineering skills in order to produce a cake of suitable size such that all may partake of its goodness.

This particular skill, when considered alongside my need of money in our materialistic society and my qualities as a generally nice person, should set me far above any other candidate you may choose to consider. I appreciate that you must keep up appearances when dealing with other candidates, so will also bring cake to interviews and assessment centres to give a foretaste of the banquet I am capable of preparing when I work for you.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Love
Emma


Should set me up, right?

Friday, 20 April 2012

[All-powerful, uncontainable]

I'd just like to direct you to this amazing post today.

Really resonated for me... does it for you?

Tuesday, 3 April 2012

Keine Lust zu beten



Hinter meiner Mauer, geht's mir heut nicht gut.
Woher kommst die Trauer? woher all die Wut?
Wieviel kann ich tragen?  Weiß ich wer ich bin? 
Führ ich meine Fragen schließlich zu dir hin

Vater du ziehst in mich hinein
mir bleibt nichts als Ehrlich zu sein


Ich hab heut keine Lust zu beten,
können wir nicht einfach Reden, irgendwo, einfach so?
denn ich hab keine Lust zu beten, doch ich brauch jemand zum Reden, der versteht, zu mir steht.

Mach ich alles richtig, tu ich was ich kann
Nehm ich mich zu wichtig, steh ich meiner Mann
Es ist schwer zu Lieben, 
Aus halt in Geduld
Soll ich Kämpfen siegen, ist es meiner Schuld?

Vater du ziehst in mir hinein
mir bleibt nichts als ehrlich zu sein

Ich hab heut keine Lust zu beten,
können wir nicht einfach Reden, irgendwo, einfach so?
denn ich hab keine Lust zu beten, doch ich brauch jemand zum Reden, der versteht, zu mir steht.

Vater du ziehst in mir hinein
Wir bleibt nichts als Herrlich zu sein

Ich hab heut keine Lust zu beten,
können wir nicht einfach Reden, irgendwo, einfach so?
denn ich hab keine Lust zu beten, doch ich brauch jemand zum Reden, der versteht, der zu mir steht.

Vater du ziehst in mir hinein
Wir bleibt nichts als ehrlich zu sein

Ich hab heut keine Lust zu beten,
können wir nicht einfach Reden, irgendwo, einfach so?
denn ich hab keine Lust zu beten, doch ich brauch jemand zum Reden, der versteht, der zu mir steht.

Ich hab heut keine Lust zu beten,
können wir nicht einfach Reden, du und ich, einfach so, irgendwo?
denn ich hab keine Lust zu beten, doch ich brauch jemand zum Reden, der versteht, der zu mir steht.

Wieviel kann ich tragen?
Weiß ich wer ich bin?
Führ ich meine Fragen schließlich zu dir hin.

Behind my barriers, I'm not doing so well today.
Where does this sadness come from?  What about all the anger?
How much can I take?  Do I know who I am?
I'll ask you all my questions eventually.

Father, you move in me
I just have to be true to myself.

I don't want to pray today.
Can't we just talk?  Simply talk somewhere?
Because I don't want to pray, but I need someone to talk to, 
who understands me, who stands with me.

I do everything right, I do what I can.
Do I make myself too important?  Do I stand by my man?
It's difficult to love just out of patience.
Should I win battles?  Is it my fault?

Father, you move in me
I just have to be true to myself.

I don't want to pray today.
Can't we just talk?  Simply talk somewhere?
Because I don't want to pray, but I need someone to talk to, 
who understands me, who stands with me.

Father, you move in me
I just have to be true to myself.

I don't want to pray today.
Can't we just talk?  Simply talk somewhere?
Because I don't want to pray, but I need someone to talk to, 
who understands me, who stands with me.

Father, you move in me
I just have to be true to myself.

I don't want to pray today.
Can't we just talk?  Simply talk somewhere?
Because I don't want to pray, but I need someone to talk to, 
who understands me, who stands with me.

I don't want to pray today.
Can't we just talk, you and I?  Simply talk somewhere?
Because I don't want to pray, but I need someone to talk to, 
who understands me, who stands with me.

How much can I take?  Do I know who I am?
I'll ask you all my questions eventually.